Edusky Private School · Parents' Guide · Last reviewed: 2026-10-18
- Signs of bullying include fear of school, sudden loss of friends, trouble sleeping, nightmares, headaches, stomach aches, or absenteeism.[1]
- Listen calmly, believe your child, and tell them it is not their fault.[1][1]
- You and your child do not have to face this alone.[1]
Bullying is a pattern of behaviour where there is a power imbalance.[1] UNICEF describes several signs that a child may be experiencing bullying.[1]
A child who is being bullied may show some of these signs:
- Fear of going to school or joining school events[1]
- Losing friends suddenly or avoiding social situations[1]
- Not sleeping well and having nightmares[1]
- Complaining of headaches, stomach aches, or other physical ailments[1]
- Absenteeism, or calling from school asking to go home[1]
UNICEF recommends that parents listen to their child openly and calmly.[1] Tell the child that you believe them; that you are glad they told you; that it is not their fault.[1] Then talk to the teacher or school, and ask whether the school has a bullying policy or code of conduct.[1]
For your child, having a supportive parent is essential to dealing with the effects of bullying.[1] Make sure they know they can talk to you at any time and reassure them that things will get better.[1]
Remember: you and your child do not have to face bullying alone.[1]
Children can prevent bullying by being inclusive, respectful and kind to their peers.[1] If they witness bullying, they can stick up for the victim, offer support, and question bullying behaviours.[1]
If you think or know that your child is bullying other children, it is important to remember that they are not inherently bad, but may be acting out for a number of reasons.[1] Understanding why your child is acting out will help you know how to help them.[1]
Listen to your child openly and calmly.[1] Tell them that you believe them; that you are glad they told you; that it is not their fault.[1]
Sources last verified: 2026-10-18
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About Edusky: a KPM-registered private primary school (SMIPS JDA1001) in Taman Adda Height, Johor Bahru. Standard 1 to 6 on Malaysia's national curriculum, in classes of about 15, with after-school care until 6pm on weekdays.
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